Happy Marriage

There are a few rules on how to build a happy marriage.
- Tell each other you love each other.
- Never both be angry at the same time.
-If you have to criticise, do it lovingly.
-Never bring up old mistakes.
-Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled. .
- Pray together at least once a day.
-Remember that behind every successful spouse is an exhausted partner.
- Remember it takes two to quarrel.
-When you have done something wrong, admit it.
-Listen when your partner is speaking.
- Remember anniversaries.
- Never run your partner down, or criticise them in public.

Lecture notes

Taking great notes is becoming a lost art. Here's how to get the most out of a lecture, and have amazing notes to show for it.

First,before the lecture begin,prepare for the lecture so that you will be more likely to predict the organization of the lecture. Check the course outline to see if the lecturer has listed the topic or key ideas in the upcoming lecture. If so, convert this information into questions to be answered in Sit as near to the front of the room as possible to eliminate distractions. And don't forget to turn off your cell-phone.
Have a proper attitude. Listening well is a matter of paying close attention. Be prepared to be open-minded about what the lecturer may be saying, even though you may disagree with it.

Then,during the lecturecopy what's written on the whiteboard and transparencies, especially the outline. To make sure that you get everything, get in the habit of skipping words like "the" and "a" and make use of shorthand and abbreviations. Summarize your notes in your own words, not the instructor's. Remember: your goal is to understand what the professor is saying, not to try to record exactly everything he or she says.
Recognize main ideas by signal words that indicate something important is to follow. See the tip on signals below.
Jot down details or examples that support the main ideas. Take down examples and sketches which the lecturer presents. Indicate examples with "e.g." Give special attention to details not covered in the textbook.
If there is a summary at the end of the lecture, pay close attention to it. You can use it to check the organization of your notes. If your notes seem disorganized, copy down the main points that are covered in the summary. It will help in revising your notes later.
At the end of the lecture, ask questions about points that you did not understand.

Finally,after the lecture,revise your notes as quickly as possible, preferably immediately after the lecture, since at that time you will still remember a good deal of the lecture. Also it is a good idea to reread your notes within 24 hours of the lecture.
During the first review period after the lecture, coordinate reading and lecture notes.
Review your lecture notes at least once a week. Also, review the lecture notes before the next lecture...(",)

islam

Islam,The Religion of Peace: Thread to remove misconceptions!

I would like to great all of you with the Islamic Greetings "Peace Be On You".I felt it was necessary to start a thread to remove the misconceptions about Islam that some of the members have. The following 2 rules have to be followed or it will result in a complaint which in turn will result in a ban!

NO PERSONAL ATTACKS

No foul words towards each other or any other religion

Some other rules for this thread to avoid problems:

When you Quote ANY holy book PLEASE give the reference, weather that be he Quran, the Bible, The Anjeel (Gospel) etc.

If you are questioned about what you post please do reply.I advise everybody to show that they are mannered and respect each other!

Muslims should follow the teachings of the Quran and Sunnah and be an example to everyone else on this thread

tension headache

Does everyone of us know about tension headache?
I had surf an internet about tension headache and I would like to share it with all of you.
A tension headache generally produces a diffuse, usually mild to moderate pain over your head. Many people liken the feeling to having a tight band around their head. A tension headache may also cause pain in the back of your neck at the base of your skull.
First I will tell you about the symptoms of tension headache.
A tension headache can last from 30 minutes to an entire week. You may experience these headaches occasionally, or nearly all the time. If your headaches occur 15 or more days a month for several months, they're considered chronic. Unfortunately, chronic tension headaches sometimes persist for years.
The risk factors among people in the world said that tension headache probably accounts for a majority of all primary headaches. And it's more common in women than in men. Almost 90 percent of women and about 70 percent of men experience tension headaches during their lifetimes. Tension headache is most prevalent in people between the ages of 20 and 50. The majority of people who get migraines also get tension-type pain.
The alternative medicine for this tension headache is massage. Massage is a wonderful way to reduce stress and relieve tension. It's especially effective for relieving tight, tender muscles in the back of your head, neck and shoulders. For some people, it may also provide relief from headache pain.

Examination tips

hai......
today i would like to share with all of you about examination tips.
First,you must have a positive thinking.You must build self-confidence and prepare well with stable, calm and peaceful mind. There is no reason to panic.The most important thing is that you must be confident and read questions thoroughly,close your eyes in meditation for a while.This is to make sure you are confident to answer it.
Then,you must work hard.Adopt an effective method of learning with revisions instead of cramming lessons.Re-read the course using brains and mastering efficiency to write your answers on your own with understanding.
You also must set realistic and specific goals and objectives for yourself. The goal is what you hope to achieve and the objective is how you will go about achieving it. After you have written down your goals, using specific data, numbers, and times, check to see if they are realistic. Then add your objectives, the actions you will take to obtain what you want.
Finally,the thing that i can say must have in ourself is that we must trust in god. If one works hard, faith in god do repay returns.
Good luck...........

reasons to love men

They've got that comfortable place on their shoulder that's perfect for snuggling into while we fall asleep.

What they lack in talk, they tend to make up for in action.

They're at peace with their bodies,except for maybe some minor anxiety over height and baldness.

They rarely lie about their age,their weight, or their clothing size.

They have an uncanny ability to look deeplyn into our eyes and connect with ourheart, even when we don't want them to.

They fall in love so hard, once they finally fall.

Their face is a treasure to behold when they give us a present they picked out.

They give us a peek at the little boy inside when they get sick or happy or hurt.

How tender they get when they cry,and how seldom they do it.

They never care what their horoscope,their mother-in-law, nor the neighbors say.

They really love their moms.They remind us of our dads.They don't mind accompanying a woman to a party even though she looks like a movie starand they look like the chauffeur.

They don't care whether colors match,but are willing to be concerned if we want them to be.

How sexy their hands look in wedding rings.How much they like us just the way we are.

happy family

Building a happy family is very difficult. Because people are unique and regardless of how hard you try to please others, you cannot just cannot please some of them. It is easy to build a tower or a mansion than a happy family.

But how could you possibly make it happy? Maybe give them a job so that they are busy working than making noises. Or put them in a separate homes but one parents in each house. I just cannot think of a wise plan to make a two families happy together. When you say happy means there is peace and comfort at home, not just one time happiness in a party and then cannot get along each other for any reasons. Happy family is close each other and has respect and love each other. How can you love the other parties when you do not want them to be part in your family? Your parents married to a new partner and you as a kid has no choice but to deal with the situation. When can you have a peace in mind and how will you accept the facts? It might take a long time to adopt the new environment you are in. But I do not think that everybody is happy to stay together at all. I bet they cannot wait to run away and start their own family or weak nest.

Ramadhan's month

Ramadan is the month of excitement and joy for Muslims. It is the month of Revelation of Qur'an, the month of Reading and Reciting the whole Qur'an, the month of Tahajjud and Qiyam Al Layl, of Prayers, of Sadaqah, Zakah Al-Fitr and Zakah Al-Mal. It is also a month of Social Activities among Muslims.

This is some tips for you to prtepare before you enter Ramadhan's month.

First,try to Fast Mondays and Thursdays

Then,start reading Qur'an daily after Salat al Fajr.

You also must spend some time listening to recitations from the Qur'an.

Besides that,train yourself to go bed early so that you can wake up far Salat al Layl.

You also must keep yourself in a state of Wudu' most of the time.

Evaluate Yourself daily before going bed.

Thank Allah for good deeds, and repent to Him for your mistakes and sins.

Give yourself time alone, so that you can Meditate, make Dhikr, Tasbih, Takbir, Tahmid and

Tahlil. You will be elevated spiritually and you enjoy life tremendously.

weight

hype.....
first I would like to ask all of you about weight.Weight is the most important think to our health.I'm sure majority of woman care about their weight.
This is some advice for you about weight.
If you are overweight or obese,you can reduce your risk of heart disease if you exercise.But you are still at increased risk of diabetes.
Still it is important to remember that the number on the scale is not the whole key to your fitness.Even thin people are at increased risk of heart disease if they are not active.So,you must exercise to improve your overall health.
To loss weight,increase the duration and intensity of your exercise.You also need to eat a healthy diet.Then,you need get an emotional support.only you can help yourself lose weight by taking responsibility for your own behaviour.But that doesn't mean that you have to do everything alone.Seek support when needed from your partner,family and friends.

things you don't say at a job interview

After a long time you had study in a university, I'm sure all of us want to get a job.
So here are a few things you don't say at a job interview.

1. I know my resume doesn't make much sense but I can assure you either does my life!

2. So what your telling me is that if I were to get one of my fingers cut off in that big machine over there, I would be able stay home and still receive my pay checks?

3. It's a good thing I got this interview, the utilities got cut off and I haven't had a shower for almost three weeks.

4. I would just ask that you don't call any of my references... or my last five employers!

5. When you call any of my three references on my resume, you will get a switchboard. Just ask for "Solitary" and get one of the guards to drop a message.

6. I realize it seems odd that I have had only one job lasting only three days in forty-one years, but honestly nothing really jumped out at me!

effective communication

Effective communication is all about conveying your messages to other people clearly and unambiguously. It's also about receiving information that others are sending to you, with as little distortion as possible.

In fact, communication is only successful when both the sender and the receiver understand the same information as a result of the communication.

By successfully getting your message across, you convey your thoughts and ideas effectively. When not successful, the thoughts and ideas that you actually send do not necessarily reflect what you think, causing a communications breakdown and creating roadblocks that stand in the way of your goals – both personally and professionally.

Being able to communicate effectively is therefore essential if you want to build a successful career. To do this, you must understand what your message is, what audience you are sending it to, and how it will be perceived. You must also weigh-in the circumstances surrounding your communications, such as situational and cultural context.

Tips on How to have Great Conversation with Anyone

With these tips you will be well on your way to having a good, meaningful and entertaining conversation with anyone!

First,make a good first impression. Smile, ask questions that require more than a yes/no answer, and really listen. Maintain eye contact and keep as friendly and polite as possible.

Then,Listen. This is the most important part of any conversation. You might think a conversation is all about talking, but it will not go anywhere if the listener is too busy thinking of something to say next. Pay attention to what is being said.

You also must ask questions. What do they like to do? What sort of things have they done in their life? What is happening to them now? What did they do today or last weekend? Identify things about them that you might be interested in hearing about, and politely ask questions.

Forget yourself.It’s much easier to become interested in others than it is to convince them to be interested in you.” If you are too busy thinking about yourself, what you look like, or what the other person might be thinking, you will never be able to relax. Introduce yourself, shake hands, then forget yourself and focus on them instead.

Lastly,know when the conversation is over. Even the best conversations will eventually run out of steam or be ended by an interruption. Shake hands with the other person and be sure to tell them you enjoyed talking with them. Ending on a positive note will leave a good impression and likely bring them back later for more!

self-confidence

Salam.......
Hai....
I would like to share about an article that is "Increase your Self-Confidence" by Syed Anees Ahmed. In this article, it told us on how to be more confidence and create higher level of self-esteem.First,we must start by tackling any project that we know we can do it.From that,we can do better because we know the point.Then we must focus on our own positive qualities.If not,we would be depressed,unmotivated and lose our confidence