my life as a CIVIL ENGINEERING

Now,I'm take civil engineering as my life.

Civil engineering is about community service, development, and improvement.

It involves the conception, planning, design, construction, and operation of facilities essential to modern life, ranging from transit systems to offshore structures to space satellites.

Civil engineers are problem solvers, meeting the challenges of pollution, traffic congestion, drinking water and energy needs, urban redevelopment, and community planning.

Hope whoever take civil engineering will enjoy with it.

winners verses losers!

The winner is always part of Answers;The losers is always part of problem

The winner has a programm;The loser has a excuse

The winner says, "let me do it for you";The loser says, "that is not my job"

The winner sees an answer for every problem;The loser sees a problem for every answer

When a winner says, "It may be difficult but it is possible";When a loser says, "It may be possible but it is too difficult"

When a winner makes a mistake, he says 'I was wrong';When a loser makes a mistake, he says, 'It wasn't my fault'

A winner makes Commitments;A loser makes Promises

Winner see the gain;Loser see the pain

Winners see the potential;Losers see the past

Winners choose wat they say;Losers say what they choose

Winner make it happen;Loser let it happen

Winners plan and prepare to win;Loser plans to win

critical thinking

A person can be good at critical thinking, meaning that the person can have the appropriate dispositions and be adept at the cognitive processes, while still not being a good (in the moral sense) critical thinker. For example, a person can be adept at developing arguments and then, unethically, use this skill to mislead and exploit a gullible person, perpetrate a fraud, or deliberately confuse and confound, and frustrate a project. The experts were faced with an interesting problem. Some, a minority, would prefer to think that critical thinking, by its very nature, is inconsistent with the kinds of unethical and deliberately counterproductive examples given. They find it hard to imagine a person who was good at critical thinking not also being good in the broader personal and social sense. In other words, if a person were "really" a "good critical thinker" in the procedural sense and if the person had all the appropriate dispositions, then the person simply would not do those kinds of exploitive and aggravating things. The large majority, however, hold the opposite judgment. They are firm in the view that good critical thinking has nothing to do with... any given set of ethical values or social mores. The majority of experts maintain that critical thinking conceived of as we have described it above, is, regrettably, not inconsistent with its unethical use. A tool, an approach to situations, these can go either way, ethically speaking, depending on the character, integrity, and principles of the persons who possess them. So, in the final analysis the majority of experts maintained that "it is an inappropriate use of the term to deny that someone is engaged in critical thinking on the grounds that one disapproves ethically of what the person is doing. What critical thinking means, why it is of value, and the ethics of its use are best regarded as three distinct concerns."

smile

smile :-)

It improves the quality of our lives, and help us to live happily.

So here is some more information:

1. You can give it to whomever you choose.

2. You can give it as often as you choose.

3. It requires no special equipment.

4. It costs you nothing to give it , absolutely free.

5. You can give it to many people at the same time.

6. It can go around the world.

6. It is always appreciated and
may do more good than you will ever know

Thanks for your smile too!

Aidilfitri

Children are all smiles and kisses on Hari Raya Aidilfitri, the day that marks the end of the fasting month of Ramadan. Although they might not show it, they are secretly tabulating just how much duit raya (festive money) they can wrestle out of the elders for being extra courteous and charming.

Giving small tokens of money to children during Aidilfitri is a custom of showing affection, something that most children expect from adults during Raya.
The tradition is very much alive, and a testament to this are the lines of people at the banks who need to exchange bundles of currency for crisp new notes in denominations of RM1, RM5, RM10, RM50 and even RM100 as Hari Raya approaches. While the adults wait at the banks, the kids are already making grand plans on how to spend their Raya loot.

group study???does it works????

Many college professors agree that group study enhances students’ performances, both in class discussions, as well as on tests.
In a group environment, students are less likely to procrastinate. After all, it’s easy to put off an assignment when you only have yourself to answer to, isn’t it? But when you know you have a whole group of people counting on you, you’ll be more likely to get the job done.
Group study also encourages students to explain things aloud. By speaking to and listening to others, students often improve on recall ability, or ability to remember information on test day.
Students who study with others are also forced to become more organized. Once you learn to date and label your notes, you’ll see that organized notes make much more sense at the end of the week than the jumbled, mix and match variety.
One more great benefit of group discussion is that the many perspectives improve your chances of anticipating test questions. Group members will always bring up ideas and thoughts you’d never considered. The various views are sure to pay off on test day!
Finally, you’ll likely find that the benefit of group study reaches far beyond the good results on test day. It will build self-confidence that you can use for the rest of your life. Speaking to small groups will prepare students for speaking to larger groups in the future—or more official groups such as college admission panels or hiring boards.
So go ahead and start building a group of like-minded students who share your goals for success. Be sure to develop a set of study rules to establish the “where’s” and “how’s” and stick by them. The results will show on report card day!

Advantages of Teaching with Short Works of Folklore

Here are some advantages of teaching with short works of folklore....

They are short! It is easy to distribute copies of short tales or rhymes to a whole class, discuss them during a class period, and compare a variety of examples relating to different topics, without needing time for extensive reading assignments.

They are fun! Many types of folklore are entertaining and most of us have fond memories of stories and rhymes we have known since childhood. Viewing illustrated versions or film adaptations can also add variety and enjoyment to class assignments.

They are memorable. Most tales and rhymes from oral traditions use patterns of language and plot that make them easy to retell and dear to the hearts of tellers and listeners

They are infinitely meaningful. Because folk and fairy tales represent human experience through symbols and archetypes, there is room for endless debate about how to interpret particular tales. They provide excellent examples of the complex interplay of realism, fantasy, and symbolism in literature. They can be analyzed in papers that do not require research, but there is also a wealth of recent research available on folklore, fairy tales and picture books. They can function as primary sources in complex research projects like any other literature

They unite children and adults. Many types of folklore have been reprinted and adapted in children's books in the past couple centuries, while older children and adults who don't read or hear folklore or picture books often lose touch with exciting parts of their own culture. Many recent storytellers, dramatists, and filmmakers endeavor to entertain the whole family, just as traditional storytellers have done around home or campfire for generations.

money!!!!

moneyIf you think about it, there are really only five things you can do with money:

-EarningMost people have to earn an income some way or another. Some people do this by working at a job, others own their own business, and still others earn their living through more unconventional means, such as investing in real estate or the stock market. Whichever way you earn your money, a key decision in this area is determining how much money you actually need to survive.

-SpendingThe first rule of spending is to always spend less than you earn. The minute you start spending more than you’re taking in, you incur what is called negative margin or deficit. Deficit is different from a loan in that deficit adds continually to your debt and are unable to pay it back. As you keep overspending each month, your debt just keeps growing and growing. Before long, you and your entire family will become a slave to it

-SavingThe extra money you have left over (or should have left over) at the end of each month after paying your living expenses, taxes, debts, and meeting your giving budget is called savings or margin. Your savings should always be planned and regular.

-InvestingInvesting your money wisely is crucial to getting the most return on your time and effort. After all, you’ve worked hard for your money.

-GivingAs with saving, your giving should always be planned and regular. Choose your charities wisely, and make sure they’re putting as much of your money as possible into their primary work rather than miring it all in overhead. It’s also okay to keep some money aside in a contingency fund for those “spur of the moment” donations.

comic books

Who says comic books are merely "child's play"?


I'm very like to read comics. my Favourite comics is Gempak.


The truth is that comic books are sought after by mature collectors, designers and readers… and if you're one of those who love comics' story lines, their colourful images, their imaginative characters and their nostalgic value, why not get together with like minded people and start a comic book reading club?

It's not such a crazy idea as it might sound, though depending upon where you live, you may have to resolve to initiate an online comic book club rather than one that meets regularly in a public venue, such as at a library or in a community room.


Still, Internet reading clubs are hardly shabby; in fact, many famous authors have been known to "visit" book club blogs, message boards and cyberspace "conversations".

quality of friendship

When I think about what makes someone a good friend, I think about all the characteristics of my own friends.

My personal definition of a friend, is someone who is always looking out for me, and will help me if I’m in trouble.

A friend has to be someone I trust and who trusts me in return.

Another important characteristic in a friend is someone who I can talk to, and make me laugh.

One of the most important traits of a friend, is someone who goodness of the two people.

It forms when one decent person loves another decent person.

This is the only lasting and true form of friendship.

A good friendship can come from a friendship that starts out as pleasing or useful.

All friendships require time to develop and grow, but only good friendships will endure over time. will help you if you need it.

The Muslim Marriage Guide

Islam teaches that marriage is ‘half of religion’ because it fulfils so many basic needs of individuals and of society, it is the cornerstone upon which the whole Muslim life is built.


Modern life brings stains and pressures which can upset even the most compatible relationship.

This means that nowadays, to protect the spirit of cooperation and happiness which is the sign of the true Islamic marriage, careful thought needs to be given to the mechanisms which help husband and wife to live together and respect each other’s rights.


This highly-readable book takes the reader through the relevant passages in the Quran and Hadith, and goes on to discuss the main social and emotional problems that can afflict relationships, suggesting many practical ways in which these can be resolved.

favourite colour-blue

hype.....
today I would like to share about my favourite colour that is blue.

A natural color, from the blue of the sky, blue is a universal color.
The cool, calming effect of blue makes time pass more quickly and it can help you sleep.
Blue is a good color for bedrooms.
Blue is calming. It can be strong and steadfast or light and friendly. Almost everyone likes some shade of the color blue.
Blue is one of the most peaceful colours, showing the majority of students to be light-hearted, calm and open-minded.
Blue is a sign of aspiration (often symbolised by the sky), yet it also reflects a desire for freedom, and the favouritism of this colour is expressive of desires for liberation.

4 ways to appreciate life more

Everybody goes through a period of time in their life in which they think they’re worthless, their life is horrible, and nothing will ever go their way.
Learning to appreciate life is a very big aspect of that. You can be a happy person but until you take the time to appreciate the life you have, you will never reach your highest potential of happiness.
There are many ways in realizing that you have a great life, but below I will outline what I think are the 4 easiest and simplest ways of realizing this important truth
1) Things can always get better-improving your life to the point where it’s your dream life. No matter where your life stands - there is always a way to make it much better.

2) Get a pet-By having a pet you can appreciate the fact that you have support no matter what you did or what happened to you.

3) Look at the stars-When you look up and see the thousands of twinkling stars, you begin to ponder philosophical questions about your life, how amazing it is that the stars can be billions and trillions of light years away and yet you can see them, and what kind of magnificent energy it takes to create something like the universe we live in.

4) Watch or play with a baby-When you look at a baby, especially one that’s laughing or smiling, you can’t help but feel happy.

Self Management

Here is a list of things that help you in self management and which will in turn lead you to the path of success: -
-) Look at every new opportunity as an exciting and new-life experience.
-) Be a professional who exhibits self-confidence and self-assurance in your potentialto complete any task.
-) Agree with yourself in advance that you will have a good attitude toward the upcoming task.
-) Frequently ask, "Is what I am doing right now moving me toward my goals?"
-) Do it right the first time and you will not have to take time later to fix it.
-) Accept responsibility for your job successes and failures. Do not look for ascapegoat.
-) Do not view things you do as a "job." View all activities as a challenge.
-) Stay interested in what you are doing. Keep looking for what is interesting in your work. Change your perspective and look at it as someone outside your job would,
-) Establish personal incentives and rewards to help maintain your own high enthusiasm and performance level.

Benefits of Walking Exercise

Why walking ?

Walking is the most natural exercise known to man.

Besides this, here are the other benefits of walking ---

1 ) Walking improves circulationCalf muscles are man's second heart. On walking, these muscles pump the blood to the heart with all force. This leads to greater heart exercise, increased oxygen requirement & better blood circulation.

2) Walking is good for the heart.The increased oxygen requirements lead to exercise for the heart. On a long term basis, it leads to a better circulation for the heart. Thus it reduces the chances of a heart attack.

That way you will easily get minimal amount of good exercise every day. And, as striding becomes a habit, you will soon get more exercise, willingly.

several ways to improve the way you speak english

Many deserving candidates often lose out on jobs because they might be a bit difficult to understand. The better you communicate with those your work with, the more effective and successful you will be at your job and in your daily life interacting with people!
Through practice, you can soon learn to speak English as comfortably and easily as your native tongue. Incorporate these tips into your daily life. As with anything in life, the more you practice something the proper way, the better you will become at it. Here are several tips to improve your English speaking skills.

1. Observe the mouth movements of those who speak English well and try to imitate them.


2. Listen to English music, television and movies to get familiar with the language sounds


3. Use the dictionary.Look up the correct pronunciation of words that are hard for you to say. Write down words and their definitions in a notebook for future reference.


4. Make a list of frequently used words that you find difficult to pronounce and ask someone who speaks the language well to pronounce them for you.


5. Buy books on tape. Record yourself reading some sections of the book. Compare the sound of your English with that of the person reading the book on the tape.


Immersing yourself in English-speaking culture is a good way to appreciate the understand the English language without losing a sense of your own identity and culture. Don’t forget that you can embrace both!

love....

Since a very long time ago, people have searched for the meaning of love. But even the great philosophers, with their profound definitions, could not fully touch its true essence. In a survey of 4-8 year olds, kids share their views on love. But what do little kids know about love? Read on and be surprised that despite their young and innocent minds, kids already have a simple but deep grasp of that four-letter word. "Love is that first feeling you feel before all the bad stuff gets in the way." "When someone loves you, the way she says your name is different. You know that your name is safe in her mouth." "Love is when someone hurts you. And you get so mad but you don't yell at him because you know it would hurt his feelings." "Love is what makes you smile when you're tired." "If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate." "There are 2 kinds of love. Our love. God's love. But God makes both kinds of them." "If you want somebody to love you, then just be yourself. Some people try to act like somebody else, somebody the boy likes better. I think the boy isn't being very good if he does this to you and you should just find a nicer boy." "When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you." "You never have to be lonely. There's always somebody to love, even if it's just a squirrel or a kitten." "You can break love, but it won't die."

camping

Are you interested in taking a beach camping vacation with your friends or family? If so, it would be in your best interest to plan your vacation plenty of time ahead. Regardless of where you intend to go (the ocean beaches, inland lakes, reservoirs, or river campgrounds) most of the popular sites along the water's edge are reserved far ahead of time.Camping is a very popular activity, especially during the spring and summer months. You are likely one of hundreds of people in and around your area who are also interested in having a fun filled camping vacation, possibly even at the same time as you.

To ensure that you are able to get a reservation, you will want to make your plans in advance.Booking your beach camping location well in advance may also help you get a better camping spot. What many individuals do not know is that many campgrounds allow their campers to choose a specific campsite in the campground.

Enjoy your next beach camping vacation. Make your reservation well in advance and plan your trip with a camping checklist. Knowing that you have brought all the necessary supplies with you and that most of your activities are planned ahead of time will make this vacation one to remember in the years to come.

Happy Marriage

There are a few rules on how to build a happy marriage.
- Tell each other you love each other.
- Never both be angry at the same time.
-If you have to criticise, do it lovingly.
-Never bring up old mistakes.
-Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled. .
- Pray together at least once a day.
-Remember that behind every successful spouse is an exhausted partner.
- Remember it takes two to quarrel.
-When you have done something wrong, admit it.
-Listen when your partner is speaking.
- Remember anniversaries.
- Never run your partner down, or criticise them in public.

Lecture notes

Taking great notes is becoming a lost art. Here's how to get the most out of a lecture, and have amazing notes to show for it.

First,before the lecture begin,prepare for the lecture so that you will be more likely to predict the organization of the lecture. Check the course outline to see if the lecturer has listed the topic or key ideas in the upcoming lecture. If so, convert this information into questions to be answered in Sit as near to the front of the room as possible to eliminate distractions. And don't forget to turn off your cell-phone.
Have a proper attitude. Listening well is a matter of paying close attention. Be prepared to be open-minded about what the lecturer may be saying, even though you may disagree with it.

Then,during the lecturecopy what's written on the whiteboard and transparencies, especially the outline. To make sure that you get everything, get in the habit of skipping words like "the" and "a" and make use of shorthand and abbreviations. Summarize your notes in your own words, not the instructor's. Remember: your goal is to understand what the professor is saying, not to try to record exactly everything he or she says.
Recognize main ideas by signal words that indicate something important is to follow. See the tip on signals below.
Jot down details or examples that support the main ideas. Take down examples and sketches which the lecturer presents. Indicate examples with "e.g." Give special attention to details not covered in the textbook.
If there is a summary at the end of the lecture, pay close attention to it. You can use it to check the organization of your notes. If your notes seem disorganized, copy down the main points that are covered in the summary. It will help in revising your notes later.
At the end of the lecture, ask questions about points that you did not understand.

Finally,after the lecture,revise your notes as quickly as possible, preferably immediately after the lecture, since at that time you will still remember a good deal of the lecture. Also it is a good idea to reread your notes within 24 hours of the lecture.
During the first review period after the lecture, coordinate reading and lecture notes.
Review your lecture notes at least once a week. Also, review the lecture notes before the next lecture...(",)

islam

Islam,The Religion of Peace: Thread to remove misconceptions!

I would like to great all of you with the Islamic Greetings "Peace Be On You".I felt it was necessary to start a thread to remove the misconceptions about Islam that some of the members have. The following 2 rules have to be followed or it will result in a complaint which in turn will result in a ban!

NO PERSONAL ATTACKS

No foul words towards each other or any other religion

Some other rules for this thread to avoid problems:

When you Quote ANY holy book PLEASE give the reference, weather that be he Quran, the Bible, The Anjeel (Gospel) etc.

If you are questioned about what you post please do reply.I advise everybody to show that they are mannered and respect each other!

Muslims should follow the teachings of the Quran and Sunnah and be an example to everyone else on this thread

tension headache

Does everyone of us know about tension headache?
I had surf an internet about tension headache and I would like to share it with all of you.
A tension headache generally produces a diffuse, usually mild to moderate pain over your head. Many people liken the feeling to having a tight band around their head. A tension headache may also cause pain in the back of your neck at the base of your skull.
First I will tell you about the symptoms of tension headache.
A tension headache can last from 30 minutes to an entire week. You may experience these headaches occasionally, or nearly all the time. If your headaches occur 15 or more days a month for several months, they're considered chronic. Unfortunately, chronic tension headaches sometimes persist for years.
The risk factors among people in the world said that tension headache probably accounts for a majority of all primary headaches. And it's more common in women than in men. Almost 90 percent of women and about 70 percent of men experience tension headaches during their lifetimes. Tension headache is most prevalent in people between the ages of 20 and 50. The majority of people who get migraines also get tension-type pain.
The alternative medicine for this tension headache is massage. Massage is a wonderful way to reduce stress and relieve tension. It's especially effective for relieving tight, tender muscles in the back of your head, neck and shoulders. For some people, it may also provide relief from headache pain.

Examination tips

hai......
today i would like to share with all of you about examination tips.
First,you must have a positive thinking.You must build self-confidence and prepare well with stable, calm and peaceful mind. There is no reason to panic.The most important thing is that you must be confident and read questions thoroughly,close your eyes in meditation for a while.This is to make sure you are confident to answer it.
Then,you must work hard.Adopt an effective method of learning with revisions instead of cramming lessons.Re-read the course using brains and mastering efficiency to write your answers on your own with understanding.
You also must set realistic and specific goals and objectives for yourself. The goal is what you hope to achieve and the objective is how you will go about achieving it. After you have written down your goals, using specific data, numbers, and times, check to see if they are realistic. Then add your objectives, the actions you will take to obtain what you want.
Finally,the thing that i can say must have in ourself is that we must trust in god. If one works hard, faith in god do repay returns.
Good luck...........

reasons to love men

They've got that comfortable place on their shoulder that's perfect for snuggling into while we fall asleep.

What they lack in talk, they tend to make up for in action.

They're at peace with their bodies,except for maybe some minor anxiety over height and baldness.

They rarely lie about their age,their weight, or their clothing size.

They have an uncanny ability to look deeplyn into our eyes and connect with ourheart, even when we don't want them to.

They fall in love so hard, once they finally fall.

Their face is a treasure to behold when they give us a present they picked out.

They give us a peek at the little boy inside when they get sick or happy or hurt.

How tender they get when they cry,and how seldom they do it.

They never care what their horoscope,their mother-in-law, nor the neighbors say.

They really love their moms.They remind us of our dads.They don't mind accompanying a woman to a party even though she looks like a movie starand they look like the chauffeur.

They don't care whether colors match,but are willing to be concerned if we want them to be.

How sexy their hands look in wedding rings.How much they like us just the way we are.

happy family

Building a happy family is very difficult. Because people are unique and regardless of how hard you try to please others, you cannot just cannot please some of them. It is easy to build a tower or a mansion than a happy family.

But how could you possibly make it happy? Maybe give them a job so that they are busy working than making noises. Or put them in a separate homes but one parents in each house. I just cannot think of a wise plan to make a two families happy together. When you say happy means there is peace and comfort at home, not just one time happiness in a party and then cannot get along each other for any reasons. Happy family is close each other and has respect and love each other. How can you love the other parties when you do not want them to be part in your family? Your parents married to a new partner and you as a kid has no choice but to deal with the situation. When can you have a peace in mind and how will you accept the facts? It might take a long time to adopt the new environment you are in. But I do not think that everybody is happy to stay together at all. I bet they cannot wait to run away and start their own family or weak nest.

Ramadhan's month

Ramadan is the month of excitement and joy for Muslims. It is the month of Revelation of Qur'an, the month of Reading and Reciting the whole Qur'an, the month of Tahajjud and Qiyam Al Layl, of Prayers, of Sadaqah, Zakah Al-Fitr and Zakah Al-Mal. It is also a month of Social Activities among Muslims.

This is some tips for you to prtepare before you enter Ramadhan's month.

First,try to Fast Mondays and Thursdays

Then,start reading Qur'an daily after Salat al Fajr.

You also must spend some time listening to recitations from the Qur'an.

Besides that,train yourself to go bed early so that you can wake up far Salat al Layl.

You also must keep yourself in a state of Wudu' most of the time.

Evaluate Yourself daily before going bed.

Thank Allah for good deeds, and repent to Him for your mistakes and sins.

Give yourself time alone, so that you can Meditate, make Dhikr, Tasbih, Takbir, Tahmid and

Tahlil. You will be elevated spiritually and you enjoy life tremendously.

weight

hype.....
first I would like to ask all of you about weight.Weight is the most important think to our health.I'm sure majority of woman care about their weight.
This is some advice for you about weight.
If you are overweight or obese,you can reduce your risk of heart disease if you exercise.But you are still at increased risk of diabetes.
Still it is important to remember that the number on the scale is not the whole key to your fitness.Even thin people are at increased risk of heart disease if they are not active.So,you must exercise to improve your overall health.
To loss weight,increase the duration and intensity of your exercise.You also need to eat a healthy diet.Then,you need get an emotional support.only you can help yourself lose weight by taking responsibility for your own behaviour.But that doesn't mean that you have to do everything alone.Seek support when needed from your partner,family and friends.

things you don't say at a job interview

After a long time you had study in a university, I'm sure all of us want to get a job.
So here are a few things you don't say at a job interview.

1. I know my resume doesn't make much sense but I can assure you either does my life!

2. So what your telling me is that if I were to get one of my fingers cut off in that big machine over there, I would be able stay home and still receive my pay checks?

3. It's a good thing I got this interview, the utilities got cut off and I haven't had a shower for almost three weeks.

4. I would just ask that you don't call any of my references... or my last five employers!

5. When you call any of my three references on my resume, you will get a switchboard. Just ask for "Solitary" and get one of the guards to drop a message.

6. I realize it seems odd that I have had only one job lasting only three days in forty-one years, but honestly nothing really jumped out at me!

effective communication

Effective communication is all about conveying your messages to other people clearly and unambiguously. It's also about receiving information that others are sending to you, with as little distortion as possible.

In fact, communication is only successful when both the sender and the receiver understand the same information as a result of the communication.

By successfully getting your message across, you convey your thoughts and ideas effectively. When not successful, the thoughts and ideas that you actually send do not necessarily reflect what you think, causing a communications breakdown and creating roadblocks that stand in the way of your goals – both personally and professionally.

Being able to communicate effectively is therefore essential if you want to build a successful career. To do this, you must understand what your message is, what audience you are sending it to, and how it will be perceived. You must also weigh-in the circumstances surrounding your communications, such as situational and cultural context.

Tips on How to have Great Conversation with Anyone

With these tips you will be well on your way to having a good, meaningful and entertaining conversation with anyone!

First,make a good first impression. Smile, ask questions that require more than a yes/no answer, and really listen. Maintain eye contact and keep as friendly and polite as possible.

Then,Listen. This is the most important part of any conversation. You might think a conversation is all about talking, but it will not go anywhere if the listener is too busy thinking of something to say next. Pay attention to what is being said.

You also must ask questions. What do they like to do? What sort of things have they done in their life? What is happening to them now? What did they do today or last weekend? Identify things about them that you might be interested in hearing about, and politely ask questions.

Forget yourself.It’s much easier to become interested in others than it is to convince them to be interested in you.” If you are too busy thinking about yourself, what you look like, or what the other person might be thinking, you will never be able to relax. Introduce yourself, shake hands, then forget yourself and focus on them instead.

Lastly,know when the conversation is over. Even the best conversations will eventually run out of steam or be ended by an interruption. Shake hands with the other person and be sure to tell them you enjoyed talking with them. Ending on a positive note will leave a good impression and likely bring them back later for more!

self-confidence

Salam.......
Hai....
I would like to share about an article that is "Increase your Self-Confidence" by Syed Anees Ahmed. In this article, it told us on how to be more confidence and create higher level of self-esteem.First,we must start by tackling any project that we know we can do it.From that,we can do better because we know the point.Then we must focus on our own positive qualities.If not,we would be depressed,unmotivated and lose our confidence

Careless...

Salam...
hai...
Once in a lifetime,maybe everyone of us had read motivation books.
Someone who very like to read motivation books would be enjoy when read this kind of books.
So,now i would like to share about one of the motivation books that is "Don't be careless"..
Almost all the content in this book,they put al-Quran and al-Hadith....
This book told about our daily life.It said that almost every second,everyone of us had being careless..As an example,we can see the student life in university.Maybe not all of the student like this..As we know,when we had enter the university,we had a lot of work to do.
So,for a muslim,they had being careless when sometime they do not perform a solah.
They was very busy to do their assignment,report,tutorial,and etc....